{"id":48,"date":"2022-11-08T13:48:31","date_gmt":"2022-11-08T18:48:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rosemaryernhoferrp.com\/?page_id=48"},"modified":"2023-01-09T16:33:55","modified_gmt":"2023-01-09T21:33:55","slug":"couple-therapy","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/rosemaryernhoferrp.com\/?page_id=48","title":{"rendered":"Couple Therapy"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-cover alignfull has-custom-content-position is-position-top-center\" style=\"min-height:100vh;aspect-ratio:unset;\"><span aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-cover__background has-background-dim-20 has-background-dim\"><\/span><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1875\" height=\"2560\" class=\"wp-block-cover__image-background wp-image-244\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/rosemaryernhoferrp.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/pexels-achraf-alan-3139497-scaled.jpg\" data-object-fit=\"cover\" srcset=\"https:\/\/rosemaryernhoferrp.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/pexels-achraf-alan-3139497-scaled.jpg 1875w, https:\/\/rosemaryernhoferrp.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/pexels-achraf-alan-3139497-220x300.jpg 220w, https:\/\/rosemaryernhoferrp.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/pexels-achraf-alan-3139497-750x1024.jpg 750w, https:\/\/rosemaryernhoferrp.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/pexels-achraf-alan-3139497-768x1049.jpg 768w, https:\/\/rosemaryernhoferrp.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/pexels-achraf-alan-3139497-1125x1536.jpg 1125w, https:\/\/rosemaryernhoferrp.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/pexels-achraf-alan-3139497-1500x2048.jpg 1500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1875px) 100vw, 1875px\" \/><div class=\"wp-block-cover__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-cover-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"has-tertiary-color has-text-color has-fira-sans-font-family has-medium-font-size has-custom-font\" style=\"padding-top:0;padding-right:0;padding-bottom:0;padding-left:0;font-family:Fira Sans\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-heading\" style=\"font-size:63px\">Couple Therapy<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-fira-sans-font-family has-medium-font-size has-custom-font\" style=\"font-family:Fira Sans\">We are social beings and wired to be attached:\u00a0 we simply do better physically and psychologically when we are in intimate pairs.\u00a0\u00a0 Studies have shown that when we are distressed in our attachments, we experience something akin to physical pain. \u00a0How do we cope with that?\u00a0 We compensate \u00a0&#8211; by seeking attention and engaging our partners in some way OR by shutting down to avoid making things even worse.\u00a0 \u00a0Learning new communication tools, new ways of &#8220;dancing&#8221; in our relationship, ultimately does not heal pain or past misunderstandings \u2013 it doesn\u2019t change the &#8220;music&#8221; we\u2019re dancing to.\u00a0 Instead, my work with you as your EFT couple therapist will be to create safety so you can access and share the emotions you are dancing to and that are contributing to your distress.\u00a0 This allows you and your partner to understand one another at a deeper level (hear the music) and work towards a more secure and loving relationship (change the music and then dance different steps).\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right has-text-color has-fira-sans-font-family has-custom-font has-custom-lineheight\" style=\"color:#2cc9c1;font-family:Fira Sans;line-height:1;font-size:16px\"><em>\u201cOwning our own story can be hard, but not nearly as difficult as spending our lives running from it. Embracing our vulnerabilities is risky but not nearly as dangerous as giving up on love and belonging and joy.\u201d&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>Brene Brown<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":10,"menu_order":2,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_coblocks_attr":"Fira Sans,Fira Sans","_coblocks_dimensions":"","_coblocks_responsive_height":"","_coblocks_accordion_ie_support":"","hide_page_title":"","footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-48","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rosemaryernhoferrp.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/48","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rosemaryernhoferrp.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rosemaryernhoferrp.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rosemaryernhoferrp.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rosemaryernhoferrp.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=48"}],"version-history":[{"count":29,"href":"https:\/\/rosemaryernhoferrp.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/48\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":447,"href":"https:\/\/rosemaryernhoferrp.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/48\/revisions\/447"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rosemaryernhoferrp.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/10"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rosemaryernhoferrp.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=48"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}